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Background - 30 yr old np - previously had the Paraguard for 5 months; however, had to have it removed because my periods were coming too frequently (every 5-6 days before I had it removed w/daily brown spotting - no infections noted on IUD after it was tested following removal). First time posting, but this community has been invaluable (thank you!!).
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Hi everyone,
I got my Mirena put in April 13, and I'm now having my first real (I think) period. I was breastfeeding when I had Mirena inserted and now I'm not (it's not an issue of supply due to Mirena, in case anyone reads this and wonders) so that's why there was a delay in the onslaught of the first post insertion period.
Anyway. I've got more than the typical spotting I was experiencing off and on since insertion, and it just feels like a period, so I'm going to assume that's what it is. Here comes a TMI question for you: has anyone experienced passing tissue-like substances after having Mirena inserted? Is this a Mirena period thing or is this because this is my first postpartum period? (I'm assuming it's the latter, but just wondering if I'm all alone here).
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I posted before about my Flexi-T 300 insertion experience around the mid-may mark and now after my ultrasound the tech basically spilled the beans and said I probably shouldn't be having unprotected sex as the IUD is not in the right spot. Bummer.
I went to the doctor who inserted it originally today and she said that it's basically low in my uterus, near the canal (sorry don't remember the name) and that we'd probably have to take it out and try this all over again. She said there aren't enough studies done to suggest that the area it's in now would protect me from pregnancy.
I'm disappointed because first of all, I am not covered under a plan, and while healthcare is free in Canada, it doesn't cover the IUD and the meds themselves. So that's another $100 or so wasted as she can't use the same IUD again. Understandable, it's not sterile. Second of all, I'm not looking forward to the "discomfort" again and what if the same thing happens again? I've never had a child, so I heard this or expulsion is common.
I was just getting used to IUD life as a positive thing. I feel phenomenal not taking the pill anymore, my sex drive is through the roof, and my period was easy. Now I have to go through this again and maybe my body won't feel the same (since it's not in the right place in my uterus, maybe I will get more cramps or something).
Has anybody ever experienced their IUD being too low? Did you go for a second try?
Thanks!
The worst thing about this happening now is that I'm flying to see the love of my life three weeks after getting it put in-- What's the likelihood that I'll still be bleeding, what's the likelihood that it'll hurt him when we have sex? I want to be able to have sex without condoms, but would it just be a better idea to wait to get the IUD until after I get back from seeing him? Aaaagh. The price of womanhood...
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Anyway, I had a copper IUD fitted two months ago. It's been fine, I've had no problems with it. However, prior to insertion, I used a mooncup. Tampons and sanitary towels really irritate me, the mooncup is the only thing I've ever used that doesn't leave me sore or give me a rash after a few days. The manufacturers say that they can be used with an IUD, but I'd really like to hear from anyone who has actually used one as I'm a little bit worried about it.
Can anyone reassure me/warn me off?
Recently started dating someone. We had sex for the first time this weekend and used condoms because I've had previous partners (also with condoms but he wants to be on the safe side until I get tested). He's... larger than average.
My issue: when I'm on top, he said he can feel something (my strings, I'm assuming?) quite a bit and it can be painful for him.
I've had my Mirena for just over 3 years, with 5 partners now, and he's the only one who's mentioned it. I'm not sure how long my strings are or if I'd be able to get them trimmed; I live in a different state from my gynecologist and don't know what resources are in my area. We're monogamous and plan on using my IUD as our only form of birth control provided it's comfortable for him; he thinks the condom might be adding a layer of protection for him now and he's worried it'll hurt worse when we stop using them.
I'm open to any suggestions anyone might have! Obviously we could just take it easy when I'm on top, but that's no fun. ;)